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*Article: Same Sex Marriage, Civil Unions, and Domestic Partnerships*
I grew up in a pretty small town that is only two miles by four miles in size and has a population of just under 25,000 people. It is the farthest South on the map of the U.S. and is geographically an island. This city, although small and quite removed, has taught me that everyone is equal, whether gay or straight, black or white, man or woman, rich or poor. This town is called Key West, Florida and within its small boundaries, has a whole community of gay and lesbian individuals. They are politicians, educators, entertainers, business professionals, and fulfill an array of positions in town. I have grown up viewing all gay and lesbian people as equal and no different than a straight person. So in my mind, it is baffling for people to try and tell these people that they cannot have the same rights and privileges as their straight neighbors. Why is it that they can make a difference on a political standpoint in schools or that they can be the head-chef at the best restaurant, yet in their personal lives they are unable to marry the person they love just because they are the same sex as them.
In many of the articles I read on gay rights and gay marriage, it seems that our country is trying very hard to make moves on this issue. Gay rights activists are becoming louder and louder on these issues and politicians are beginning to feel the pressure to make changes on current legislation. The Northeast U.S. is leading the movement, but throughout the other States it is still only a battle in its early stages. Gay marriage is not the only issue being confronted. There are issues for gay couples such as adopting children, living together, gaining health benefits, and fighting hate crimes.
Although some people may see being gay or lesbian as wrong and abnormal, it is the lifestyle some people choose to lead and it should not be anyone else’s business to tell those people how to live their lives. It is only out of ignorance that these opponents have such a strong stance against being gay and having equal rights. President Obama is quoted in the New York times as “opposing same-sex marriage as a Christian… but as a fierce advocate of equality for gay men and lesbians.” We all need to follow our President’s lead by putting out personal opinions aside for these issues and being advocates of equality first, because no matter what we do, as human beings we are all different in one way or another. We need to accept this, deal with it, and actively pursue equality for everyone!
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http://news.ncmonline.com/news/view_article.html?article_id=c8ec8bec183f89091a61cdc015f1a6c8
Race is already in itself a controversial topic. However, it’s truly disturbing to hear race being used as a rationale to blame others. Along with this idea of subjugation, comes the harsh reality that black students are deemed upon as less intelligent, falling behind, lacking motivation, or in other terms a failed effort. In this instance, a label becomes critical of the minority. This label is detrimental, dehumanizing, and creates generalizations that devalue the individual. The misconception that all black male students are engaged in violent or gang related activities, that they don’t take their education seriously, and that there exists no possibility of a black male student changing his rebellious mindset only guide the principles of those who wish to be ignorant. To question why this group of students is not performing in accordance with their peers is more troubling, because the mentality behind our social institutions accepts racism in our society—so acceptable that it puts aside the effort of those who do succeed.
As mentioned above, if people ignore or humiliate the capacity of black male students then their level of confidence is lowered and eventually they begin to internalize this idea that they are a problem. Steele’s stereotype threat demonstrates how a person will underperform in a manner that fulfills that negative label. This is disheartening. To think that social structures limit and abandon their hopes in black children can only show the fatality of our nation’s educational system or perhaps of our nation as a whole. Most of these teens are immediately viewed as dropouts, possessing illegal weapons, or participating in criminal activities. Thus, I turn to the CNN Student News Special , where some of these same children “refuse to be a stereotype” and find refuge in their schools. Many are bright and understanding individuals who are able to note their current situation, their disadvantage, and some find it necessary to beat the odds by staying in school. School might be the only liberation from their adversity in a system that wants to deprive them from merit.
Moreover, the article “SCHOOL MATTERS: How African-American Males Can Succeed in School” indicates how vital it is to create a nurturing and comforting environment for these students who often come to school afraid, depressed, and tortured by their imposed inferiority. Because, they’re treated as a threat wherever they go, they take on a role of resistance toward those who view them as such. If they’re so bad, then why go to a place where they’re unwanted? Then, the problems begin. The problems begin because of the whiteness that permeates the psyches of so many individuals. “African-American males did better in school when their teachers were interested in them personally, treated them fairly, encouraged them to express their views, and gave extra help when needed” says the article and that’s exactly the type of national effort that should be implemented. If teachers are to take that heartfelt concern and arouse interest in their black male students then maybe this could be a step towards resolving the issue of high dropout rates. Students need teachers that instruct but also take the time to listen, since their voices are usually silenced anyway. School activities, organizations, and even parent involvement can unite people to work towards taking these teens out of their misery. If they see a positive outlook, a positive attitude from others, and a positive mindset that wants to cooperate then maybe they’ll start transforming their own self-image into one that fits these ideals.
Black male students shouldn’t have to be suffering just thinking about school. It’s bad enough that all black students are discriminated against, but it’s even worse to think that black males are being put to shame for their situation when social factors originating in white society have a large role in this unfairness.
Article 1- Colleges Fight to Get and Keep Black Males
http://news.newamericamedia.org/news/view_article.html?article_id=c91a1a8470fc42d78d0d522717ed3a61
Article 2- America has lost a Generation of Black Boys
http://www.blackstarproject.org/home/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=26&Itemid=38
Article 3- Reaching Black Men
http://www.insidehighered.com/news/2009/07/14/blackmale
CNN: Student News Special: Black in America